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Thursday, January 29, 2015

That moment when...


Today I had one of those moments that no one wants to have.

I really want to share it with you all so that you understand I too am a real person.

Here I go.

“I didn’t know a girl like that  could lift like that.”

Yes, that’s what I heard today while at the gym. To put it nicely, it broke my heart. 
*note although my music may be loud I’m most definitely not deaf*

Even worse is that it was said by a professor from the Exercise Science department.

What the actual f does that mean?

I am too fat?
  Too muscular?  
Not feminine enough?
 Incapable? 
Different than the stereotype created by the fitness industry? 
That I am not good enough to workout at the gym? 

So I did what any dignified lady would do and I finished my set and walked out with my head held high.
NEWSFLASH: I do NOT deserve to be treated like that.
I have come too far to regress to feeling different and that I am not good enough.

I am a boss
I am beautiful
I am strong.  
I may not be a size 2, but damn straight I am fit and to me that's worth more than anyone's opinion of me.

What would you have done?  Has this happened to you?
Feeling strong,

C

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